Book- She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

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Maybe that's in self defense, outdoor survivals skills, or how to be like Bond in the bedroom.

Wouldn't you like to hear your Bond girl say; "Ooooh, James!"?

Ok, probably not if your name isn't James, but you get the point.

We don't plan on selling a lot (or any) other books in this category because, frankly, we don't think you'll need any other book besides this one.

So here it is: 

Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”


Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. 

The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.”

An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”

240 pages


“Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they’re not satisfied.” -- Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City

“Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon.” -- Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine

“Here comes a book that puts men in their places - smack dab in between women’s legs!” -- Cake

“An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!” -- Playgirl

From the Back Cover

As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate."

Most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris.

But in the world of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword.

According to sex therapist (and evangelist of the female orgasm) Ian Kerner, oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay: simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Can you say "viva la vulva"?

Fun and informative, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring that sexual fulfillment is mutual.

About the Author

Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books.

He contributes regularly to Today and lives in New York City with his wife and two young sons.